AITA for being upset that my husband didn't tell me he visits his brother in prison every Thursday?
He was dressed for work when he left today. I packed him his lunch, told him to have a great day at work. He said thanks, and left.
I have no idea where he is, why he said he was going to work if he wasn’t. I can’t reach him, his phone goes straight to voicemail.
He goes to visit his brother every Thursday in a state penitentiary. He was ashamed to tell me he was in there.
He was ashamed to tell me he was in there.
He was worried I would think it was an inevitability that he would wind up there.
He didn’t want me to know he comes from an entire family of what he calls “broken men”
This is verified, he is telling the truth.
🏠 The Aftermath
He goes to visit his brother every Thursday in a state penitentiary.
He was ashamed but now we’ve talked about it openly.
Acknowledging the reality of his family history has brought us closer.
Communication is key, no more secrets.
Mixed feelings but understanding his perspective.
💭 Emotional Reflection
I realize the importance of open communication and accepting each other's past.
Our relationship is stronger now that we’ve shared these hidden truths.
Understanding his fears and the reasons behind his actions has deepened our bond.
Reactions:
He should have been honest from the start.
It’s understandable why he kept it hidden, but honesty is crucial in a relationship.
Communication is key, glad you talked it out.
Mixed responses highlight the complexities of family dynamics and transparency.
🌱 Final Thoughts
Transparency and understanding are vital for a healthy relationship.
Honesty can be challenging, but it's necessary for trust and growth.
What do you think?
Would you have been upset or understanding in this situation? Share your thoughts below 👇
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