AITA for setting extreme conditions for my mom to live with me?
My mom, who mistreated me for years, now wants to move in after losing her house. I gave her a taste of her own medicine with strict rules.
Growing up, my mom kicked me out, and now she's asking to live with me despite having options. Her poor financial choices led to her losing the house.
I lived with my dad since 16 due to her behavior. She bought a big house with my stepdad, who passed away, leaving her broke. Now, she's at my door.
"All electronics were to be turned off by 6 pm."
I offered her a place with strict rules mirroring my teenage years under her care. She stormed out, calling me a monster.
"If at any point she displeases me, I will be calling my brother up to pick her up."
I haven't heard from her since. My brother commended me, but it seems no one in the family wants her to stay with them.
🏠 The Aftermath
She left in anger, and I haven't heard from her since.
My mom is homeless, and my brother mentioned that none of them are willing to take her in.
This tough situation showed that my mom's actions have consequences, but it's bittersweet.
She reaped what she sowed.
I feel conflicted about the outcome, knowing she's left without a place to stay.
💭 Emotional Reflection
The extreme conditions I set were a response to years of mistreatment, but it's hard to see her struggling now.
Looking back, I realize the impact of those rules on her, even if they mirrored my past experiences.
It's a complex situation with no easy answers, highlighting the strained relationships within my family.
How would you react in this situation?
Setting strict rules was harsh but understandable given the circumstances.
The consequences may have been harsh, but she brought it upon herself.
It's a tough situation, but sometimes tough love is necessary.
Reactions were mixed, but the consensus was that tough situations often require tough decisions.
🌱 Final Thoughts
Reflecting on this experience, I see the complexity of family dynamics and the consequences of long-standing issues.
It's a stark reminder of how past struggles can resurface in unexpected ways.
What do you think?
Would you have left, or stayed and kept trying to make it work? Share your thoughts below 👇
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